Cheaters never win... that's especially true when it comes to romance and relationships.

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And to be totally frank- we aren't living in the days of being able to live a double life with multiple wives. Back before the internet, you heard of men who would have families in different cities, or wives and double lives. Now, with all of the internet sleuths, it's increasingly more difficult to be a bad partner

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And now a new facebook group trend is helping West Michigan women catch their cheating partners.

What's the deal with these "Are we dating the same guy" pages?

I first noticed the trend on TikTok, and it seems to be spreading through videos like this.

@washingtonianmag OK, what are your biggest red flags? 🚩🚩🚩 #washingtondc #dctiktok #dc #dmv #dcdating #dating ♬ original sound - Washingtonian

It seems that women around the world are finally realizing that we can work together to make sure no one scams us, versus fighting amongst ourselves.

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These groups have been popping up in cities across the country once women realized having something local to their area would help them avoid heartbreak from the same guy dating six of us. (Lets be honest, a lot of us have unfortunately found ourselves in this situation and would have done anything to know sooner.)

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There are several of these "are we dating the same guy" pages based in Michigan, but the biggest most active one is the Are We Dating The Same Guy Michigan / Lansing / Grand Rapids page. However, east siders should be aware, because Detroit and Ann Arbor have their own page as well.

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Can anyone join these pages?

Yes and no...

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Yes, any woman who wants to participate in a productive way, and who promises not to post screen shots of the page itself is invited to request to join the page.

However guys, don't think you're going to thwart women by joining this page- you won't have your request approved. This is truly a ladies only zone.

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While I hope no one finds their significant other on this page, I hope it helps some people find peace from the people who are doing them wrong. Cheaters beware, your time is running out.

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