Tuesday, the day after celebrating (well, they probably didn't celebrate) their 10th wedding anniversary, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner announced that they will be getting divorced.

“After much thought and careful consideration, we have made the difficult decision to divorce,” the two said in a statement to E! News. “We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children whose privacy we ask to be respected during this difficult time. This will be our only comment on this private, family matter. Thank you for understanding.”

Affleck and Garner first met on the set of Pearl Harbor in 2001 and later played love interests in 2003’s Daredevil,

The couple has three children: Violet, 9, Serafina, 6, and Samuel, 3.